Azhira, I think we sometimes get so caught up in our DB'ing and focusing on doing what is right for our H's (so as not to rock the boat) that we forget what we really want.
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I kept saying it was about me, and I had just been thinking about how these things bother me, but I'm not standing up for myself. I told him that I have a tendency to just agree to things, or to convince myself I'm not really bothered about something, when I really am.
xh said he had the same problem, with both me and his family.
You opened up about how you're feeling and he turned it around and made it about him again.
Don't compromise yourself...Don't forget what you really want and that you deserve it. Don't settle for less. J~