Sorry you are here. I did a tour over there with infranty as a medic in 04-05. Sorry this happened.
Not knowing the dynamics or qualified to give good advice all I can say is the same rules apply as if he was an accountant. If he wants the D then he does the work. Do not make it easy for him.
Combat rocks your world. Some of us are better some of us worse. Get the Divorce Remedy book and read it. Keep venting and posting here.
