I'm also worried that like RedHead said, it would affect his career. For my kids sake, I don't want to do that.
Also, he's going to be doing enough stuff that he is a a**hole. I don't need to help him out any in their eyes! He keeps telling me, 'tell them their dada loves them and that i'm a good father.' and everytime, i tell him, 'i can tell them that until i'm blue in the face and they won't believe a word i say if ur not there backing it up.'


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!