Sex Addict?!

[Livin4ME]

I appreciate your input jarhead.
As far as garnishment, he can't even give me money for groceries, much less that much money for child support. So I'm going to fight that one tooth and nail.As far as the alimony. I'm a stay at home mom. When we moved here, I looked for a job for over a year, before I found something through a temp agency and then they laid me off while on maternity leave. The economy is just as bad where I'll be moving as it is here. I'm going to be flipping burgers (no offense to anyone who does it!). I have no college education. Only experience. And I'll be living here until it's final.
I have gone to a divorce seminar here and they've told me the opposite of everything he has told me.
Yeah, he says that when we come to agreement about everything, he'll file. I love that. just another reason for him not too. Why is it that they think that because THEY screwed up, WE have to be the one do something about it!? Why should WE have to pay the money to fix THEIR problem!?
As far as his command. Right now, we are living the civilian life. Recruiting. The closest base is an Air National Guard base. Closest JAG is in Chicago, a few hours away. When I go to see my family next weekend, I'll be visiting the JAG office there. 20 minutes from their house. I've already contacted them.
I so wish I could call his command. I'm not too familiar with them. I don't even have his chief's phone number. that's one thing I really miss about the military lifestyle, is the commraderie(sp?). I always had full access to his command before. We knew everyone and if we ever had any problems, they called us before we could call them. I so miss that! Now, I've met a couple of the guys that he works with, and I think 2 of the wives. I know where his office is, and the phone number, but that's really about it.