I would have to put in here to think very carefully about calling his 1st Shirt or anyone else on this. If you do end up staying together, or even not, this could VERY adversely affect his career. I would even venture to say if he's looking at porn at work, he could get kicked out.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10