Sun,
Goodness. I am so sorry to read this. I truly don't understand, so I'm sure you don't either. You sound very strong and determined and I think that is wonderful. Good for you. Please don't worry too much about him; he's a grown man. He has to own his choices.
I hope you do have a nice Thanksgiving despite this. Want some cookies? I made a huge batch for my H who isn't coming this weekend.
love Hope


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.