My dear... time to seek representation immediately.
So sorry this happened day before Thanksgiving!!
Yeah.. my W's L tried to pull the same crap. 50/50 custody and I pay 94% of the child support. I refused maintenance our version alimony.
As for the garnishment.. W's L pushed for that, but the judge said it didn't have to be that way. Won that one.
He won't file unless you do it his way? Perfect.. do a free consult.. have the lawyer tell you what you already know then tell H "I've consulted a lawyer and he/she said you are out of your ever loving mind. Ball is in your court"
No muss... No fuss. Let him make the next move.
Funny.. my W wanted me to file. Heeeeelll no. Then she asked for Atty fees. Knucklehead thought I'd bite.. Hello!!
Military huh? How are you with his command? I'd think a well placed call regarding porn etc would be in order.
"Hi.. I'm Miss Smith.. one of your guys met up with me online and now I'm (pick you poision)"
Trust me... calls like this get LOTS of attention.
Just a thought.
Might also be a good idea to ask to speak to the JAG. Judge Advocate General. (Hope I'm not insulting). Usually a core of Lt's or Captains. They would probably be able to give you a better idea of what can/can't be done military wise.
