so he saw a lawyer today. his newest thing is, he wants me to go sit with HIS lawyer, have him explain everything to me, decide on everything, the lawyer rights everything up and H goes and files it. the judgement is what we agree on. wow. i can't believe he thinks i'm that ignorant!!!!! i told him no. i would not meet with his lawyer because his lawyer is there to get HIM the best deal. he doesn't care about me or the kids. so his job is to work for H. not me. he says he won't file until we do this because his lawyer told him this is the cheapest way to do it. $1000 a month for child support. if he continues to make the payment on the van that is in his name that I drive, then the child support goes down. no spousal support even tho i'm a stay at home mom. no nothing. no help with day care because i will have to get a job. just the child support. and he will be signing my child support payment himself. they will not garnish his wages, even tho he is military because the military will not be involved. that's what he says. good grief. i didn't just fall off the truck this morning!!!!
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
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