Of course always something.....I am stilling feeling great! I continue to grow stronger, as my H is growing weaker. He and his OW have broken up, not completely, as they say they are still "friends." But, I know this one (I say this because they have broken up several times in the last year)is a little bit more serious. The reason why I know this is the H has been trying to find little reasons to contact me everyday for the past two weeks. I am getting sick of it. Of course, he always uses the kids as an excuse. I ignore his phone calls, except last night he fooled me and called from his parents because he knew I would answer the phone. I want nothing to do with him. We had what could have been a final conference before our D last week and he did accept what I offered, yet he offered me nothing. Now, it goes to trial. My lawyer and I were willing to let a lot of things go that I was asking for in the divorce. Everything added up to more than half of what I ended up offering in the end. Basically, he had a sweet deal, but refused. I told my lawyer, "I don't get it, for someone who has been wanting this divorce so badly, he could have settled and we could have been divorced within a couple of months." My lawyer said, "Think about it, it buys him more time.....maybe he doesn't want it." Well, I want it and now I need to figure out a way to make a deal so this won't go on longer. There isn't even a trial date set yet....It is so weird how the tables turn. A year ago, I was at my worst and not wanting a divorce. This year, I am at my best and wanting the divorce. He on the otherhand.........who knows????? Have a great Thanksgiving!
