Today was an interesting day. H called about 10 to talk to the girls and then me. I reminded him off our plans for the day and told him we would be leaving the house in an hour our so. H called an hour later to ask if his mom was working today. Told him probably. H was wondering if she needed the turkey he got from work. I said she probably got one already, but he could call her.

Girls and I went to friends house. I filled my four friends in on the sitch. Lots of sympathy and support so that felt good. Kept telling them I'm responsible too. Anyway we had a great lunch, drinks and lots of laughs.

H called as we were on our way to the salon for our hair appts. Wanted to tell me there is a football game in town on Sun. (He has 4 season tickets.) He was asking about my plans for the day. Silly me, I thought he was going to ask if I wanted to go with him. I guess he just wanted to know if I would have the girls on Sun. He knew I made some plans for Sat. w/ girls and thought he wouldn't be able to spend time w/ them that day. Told him that isn't until 7:00 so he can spend the day with them. Told H I would call him on the way home if he wanted and he said ok.

Called H as we were headed out and he didn't answer. He called back about 5 min. later and said he was almost to the house to get things for tomorrow. I said we would be there soon. H called again before we got there to say he was running to his friend's house but would be right back.

I started to make pasta for the girls and me. We were starting to eat just as H got to the house. H started to eat some chips. Told him there was enough pasta for him if he wanted some. It was something I didn't think he would want, but he got up and got some. Then he thanked me as if he was surprised that I offered it to him. I don't get why he thinks that way. I'm glad I offered though and he ended up staying around for half an hour or more. He was actually initiating conversation w/ the girls and me.

Before he left H asked if I had a new shirt on. That was odd because I have bought a lot of new clothes the past few months and he hasn't commented on any. This shirt was one I bought in the spring and have worn many times. Maybe this is the first he has looked at me in a long time. I'm glad I took the time to make myself look decent before he got home. I put on jammies shortly after he left to be comfy. I try not to wear them when he is around because I don't want to look frumpy and depressed.

Before H left he asked if he could come by early in the morning. (His mom is eating at 1:00.) I said of course. I guess I'll have to make myself look like a hottie in the morning.



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Last edited by lizzy; 11/22/07 01:29 AM.

Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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