Is there any hope for my M?

[txbutterfly]

- H dropped bomb 5/07, was infatuated with coworker/EA.
- We separated a month later & I filed for D (in shock, only did it b/c he SAID he thought we should D & he went with me to file....basically pushed me to do it).
- 2 mos went by and he acted crazy (lost a ton of weight, drinking, changed his name, flirting with this coworker, many MLC behaviors)
- eventually, coworker leaves the company, H calms down, says he misses me, etc. we go to MC for 3 mos
- we've lived apart for almost 5 mos now.
- we still have contact every week (dinner, etc, but no sex or affection just hugs)
- H has said he wants D (bomb drops) on 2-3 occasions since orig bomb drop, each time he softens after, but not this last time...almost 2 wks ago
- C told us to stop MC and each continue with IC
- H bought a Porsche 2 wks ago
- H claims NO OW just "making friends" and I know he goes to bars with a new single guy friend who i have not met
- Our marital home is sold & H moves out in a week, to a condo where he hopes to "meet new people"
- I am thinking of dismissing my original petition and telling him if YOU want a D then YOU file. I never thought a D was the way to handle our problems & I think if he were not in MLC, he wouldn't either.

Is there ANY hope for restoring my M? Or am I just a blind fool? My M was NOT perfect, it was rocky at times, boring at others, but I always loved him & felt sure he loved me. I can't believe what a change I have seen in him since his EA...he also says weird things like "We should D so one day we can get back together" and "I'm not lost, I just need to find myself" and "I need time and space" whereas pre-bomb, he wanted to be with me almost every second!!!

Pls help