Wanted to report in. My appointment with my attorney went well this morning. Spent 2 hours with him. We meet again next week. He now thinks I should file for divorce. Not a problem with me. It's nice to be ready for this move. I'm feeling really good... strong and hopeful.
Last night, my H wasn't happy that I wouldn't be signing that quit claim. He sent some immature text messages to me, the last one saying that I better be ready to show the house, that he hopes I have some money or can get a job real quick, no heat, no electricity, no more money from him till a judge forces him to pay. It didn't really scare me, but I thought he might actually go withdraw the money from our checking. An automatic deposit had just went in yesterday.
I went to our bank first thing in the morning. It worked out perfectly, as I was already borrowing my Mom's car in the morning for my L appt. I had 45 minutes to spare. The gal at my bank was already informed of my sitch by the branch manager I'd spoken with last week. This gal just went through a similar situation recently it turns out. We visited again later in the morning when I returned to finish my business there. Told her about the boards. She's divorced but it sounds like it might be helpful for her.
Anywho, earlier this morning I was able to have cashier's checks issued for bills that are coming up due in the next week or two and I took out just a couple hundred dollars for my own expenses. When I returned later, H had taken out almost all the remaining money less than half an hour after I had completed my transactions. He'd gone to a branch as soon as he could, as he just got off work this morning. It sure has felt like everything has just fallen in place for me, especially today.
I'm on my way to go pick up my Mom. I'm packing up the dogs and we're gonna stay the night with my folks. So they get a doggie vaca on the farm again. My bro and his girlfriend arrive tomorrow for a couple day visit. I'm ready to see family. Lots of good stuff.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. We have so much to be thankful for. Love and peace. f21
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
