I don't know if any one else has revenge fantasies, but I do. I know it's a waste of time, but it helps work out the rage I sometimes feel. The truth is, I probably could never act on these fantasies, but if I did I could ruin lives. I could easily destroy the OW he is having an EA and PA with, both personally and professionally, but I'm better than that. She is the one who rips apart peoples lives with no regard for them, not me. But sometimes, when I'm angry, it is satisfying to think of all the things I could do and the consequences for her. Is this common?
