man oh man, too easy, scary actually. Again, in a way it made me understand my h and how hard it must've been to stop seeing ow cold turkey, how he had a "routine' of some sorts, prob looking forward to that and not having that, i felt bad to know that i wouldn't have my online guy to talk with, it does hurt.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Cat, It does help to understand, at least to some small degree, how they could have fallen into the trap of an A... and how hard it is to give up. My H had many back & forths. He had a very hard time giving it up event though he knew he wanted me and our family.
It's good to have that level of understanding. Anyway, sounds like things are going well. Keep up the good work!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
Hey RHW! Not sure which of your threads I've posted on, so I'll just do the first one I see. Hope things are better. Have a good Thanksgiving. Find something to be thankful for.
Hi Cat! Just swinging by to catch up on your thread. Sounds like you are making some progress in C - even though it's slow going. Have a happy thanksgiving!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
Now that I know that H is suffering from depression and anxiety things must be played differently. I have ups and downs myself, wanting this over with and wanting to stay strong and be there for him. I'm debating a few things, wont' be able to see MC for at least another week due to H's schedule, I pray that his T on thursdays helps him cope with the depression since he can't take any medication. I'm clinging to God like crazy for this burden is too heavy for me to carry. I thank Him that I have peace in my heart, I so wish my H would find that too. He's been working double hard lately and he is always so terribly tired it hurts my heart.
It will be another crazy week at work so I'll just be lurking here and there, when it rains it pours here. You all are still in my prayers, take care))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
man oh man, too easy, scary actually. Again, in a way it made me understand my h and how hard it must've been to stop seeing ow cold turkey, how he had a "routine' of some sorts, prob looking forward to that and not having that, i felt bad to know that i wouldn't have my online guy to talk with, it does hurt.
Isn't it interesting how a little EA "spark" can help you understand what the cheating spouse felt? In a way I think this is helpful, as long as that spark dies out.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
