I want to tell you something. I think you are a strong, capable, very attractive woman, Lillieperl. I think it took a lot of strength and character to accommodate your boyfriend's weakness by seeing past it into his need to meet his mother's needs.
Regardless of how your relationship eventually evolves with him, I think you will make the right guy a most excellent mate. I wish your boyfriend would wake up and step out of his grief.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
