I am not sure that I am as strong as I think that I am. But I am trying to keep focus off of R talk we still have some very angry moments, but I am trying my best to diffuse them. I would suggest that you agree with everything and validate validate validate it has worked some wonders for me this week. Still no forward progress, but I think that maybe I have slowed the momentum.
She is no where near accepting that this may work or that she even wants to work on anything, but to be invited to the house to be pursued by her is very nice.
I just need the strength to DB tonight and tomorrow and make sure that I don't give anything back like I did last weekend....
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
