new here. Feel like dying

[ms ladybug]

Your right. He says we're dancing and I need to let him lead. Whatever. Lead us right off a cliff.

I would give my right arm for him to listen to what I have to say. He knows that. But, he doesn't know how to just listen.

Sometimes I think it's a power-trip cop kinda thing. Like, at work, he talks and people listen. If they don't listen, he makes them listen. And when they talk to him, they're lying 90% of the time. I think he then comes home and expects the same from me. He expects me to listen, and when I talk, I must be lying (or have some hidden agenda). I told him once in an arguement to stop treating me like a suspect!

Add this, to his "Biblical" views of marriage, and you have one messed up situation.