Steve, you just don't want us in TN. I see your alterior motives.
Not true, we need more people!!
I guess what I didn't stress enough is that you wouldn't be able to go home to Cali with the kids if you were to move here and if he became a permanent resident (got a driver's license), which I'm sure he would have to do to work in LE.
Saw this with my friend during his D. He moved his wife here from NC and she didn't like it here. She was going to move back to NC and he filed for D, thus preventing her from taking the kids back.