Hey Big Tuna, I haven't seen you around here lately. I read in the Divorce Remedy book that sometimes, the WAS ends up regretting their decision to end the marriage. You know your ex better than anybody. Do you think she is having second thoughts?
Luckily, my ex and I didn't have kids so there is nothing binding us...yet, there are times I wish my ex would call me and tell me what a big mistake he made. We both had fault in the demise of our marriage but in the end, I was willing to hang in there and make it work...he wasn't. Even though I still love him, I've decided to move on, and it actually feels good. I'm doing well. I have a good secure job. I also have a good support system...friends and family. I don't date, and I've gotten so bad at flirting...YIKES!
It's hard to move on, and I'm sure it's harder when there are children involved. I wish the very best for you Big Tuna. And yes, you need to hang on for your two precious sons. No matter what happens, you will always be their Dad.
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07