As far as the OCD, he full on admits that he has it. But, it really doesn't manifest in other areas other than wanting things clean...and orderly. Everything has a place, and if things are not in their place, he gets mad. For example, the car keys are to go in a drawer in the entry way. I, often throw them on the dryer as I walk in the house from the garage. THAT makes him angry. I always know where my keys are (well, most of the time) so I don't see the problem. There's no family history of anything like this. His mom and grandmother both have pretty bad depression, but not OCD.
As far as abuse, one time while I was driving, he wanted me to pull over and I wouldn't and he pinched my arm a bunch of times...that's it. I mean, that was bad, my daughter was in the backseat yelling for him to stop, and I ended up with about 8 bruises on my arm. He knows his career would be seriously on the line if he abused me or the kids.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
