GGG- What it means to me.

[Dom R]

Making the assumption that this is your "new thread", MJ:

Okay, GP and I are still going out because I can't figure out if he is a bad bad boy or a good bad boy so I am giving him the benefit of the doubt. Anyways, I am 90-something % certain that he is a loyal variety of "bad boy" which I will call the "soldier". He is extremely nice to me but he isn't a nice boy because he will "kill" things if he has to.

a coupla comments:

1. being nice to YOU, doenst make him a "nice boy".

2. a man doesnt have to be a "bad boy", to be capable of killing if neccessary.
It's interesting that you term that type as a "soldier".
Because there are lots of soldiers, who arent "bad boys".

I'll note you didnt respond to my comments about you having a "bad boy fetish". I'm guessing that means, that there is something accurate in my comments, then

Maybe you think that you need a "bad boy" to protect you, go out and "hunt", etc.
Maybe that feeling of being "covered" is what turns you on ATM?

If you recognize that is what you are wanting, in your heart... then that is something that you can look for alternative ways/men to meet that need.
Which ties in to my statements that sexual turn-ons, can be changed.

If you realize that that [need to be protected/provided for], is what is driving that sex desire of yours... then instead of looking for "bad boys" to rev your motor... you can then choose to look for "guys who you know will take care of you and protect you".


Parting comment: You dont "end up with bad boys". you dont "attract bad boys". you dont "make bad boys".

you choose bad boys, and look to emphasize that nature in who you date, because that's what turns you on.

It's your choice.

You have the power to choose something else, if you wish.
Both in what turns you on, and also the type of man you choose to be with.