Zu:

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I honestly don't know if I've misrepresented, but I don't THINK I'm being selfish.


You aren't being selfish, honey. You have your azz stuck in that big, fluffy, incredibly comfy Center of the Universe Chair, and you don't know it.

You are STUCK in your own POV.

That doesn't mean your H doesn't have contributing issues. You can't change this sitch til you haul your azz out of that chair, honey.