Sandi,

i'm sorry you feel bad.
I think that for someone such as yourself... if you have a good church, then sometimes, the best thing you can do, is drag yourself there (or have someone else drag you \:\) ), and it will make you feel a bit better.

This isnt true for ALL churches. But I know it would be true for my one.


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I just pray I can start feeling better so I can work hard.


Sandi... God Loves You.
You dont have to work harder like that, to earn His love.
Maybe He's trying to get you to stop "working so hard", and think more, instead.

Do you remember a month ago, when He made you stop...and then you had more time to think... and that was the point at which you tried some new things with your husband.. even though you didnt "feel" up to it really... and you had wonderful results?


Please go back, and re-read my previous post.
Take the time to think about what happened, and what changed, between when you were doing all those positive things with your husband, and showing each other affection.... and when it stopped.

It sounds like it stopped a few weeks ago. So it might be difficult to remember. but please try.


If you really cant, or dont WANT to remember... then maybe God wants you to just try again, doing the GOOD things you did last time... but this time, pay more attention, and notice when things change... and then WRITE them here \:\)

God bless you.


Last edited by Dom R; 11/21/07 07:15 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle