I just got her response. It seems much more positive than the last ones that I've gotten.

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I believe that you are learning and growing. I felt very restrained. So much in fact that I started to act out against you. I want to be myself too. I am on my way. I feel good about today and how things have been going for me lately. I've had some rough times and learned some hard lessons but I feel like things are going to be moving forward. I'm glad you recognize things that were bad about our past. I recognize that I was no way near perfect. I did some things that weren't right either and I am sorry for those things.

I feel like I am doing okay right now.
Are you doing anything for Thanksgiving? I'm just going to my parents and that is about it.
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I think my response is to just tell her what I'm doing for Thanksgiving. Should I validate some more or tell her that I forgive her for the past? (I do by the way.)


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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