I WISH someone would send that book to my H. When I first read DB it was like a 2x4 to my head as I was the one who first initiated a separation and divorce. After reading it I did a 180 but my H had already started an affair and really just pushed and pushed until I asked for a divorce. I see that now that he wanted me to do the dirty work in a way. I wish he knew how serious it has been affecting our kids but I do not know if that is my job to tell him? Anyways, I do not think I can handle reading another divorce book because I feel like I am the only one who really tried to save a dying marriage.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."