Originally Posted By: AKmusic
A gf is not marriage, I am trying to move on with my life. Sometimes things can come around though, this was not the case a month ago.



If you want suggestions on if you can reconcile with your wife, and how to do that, then this is the place for you.



If you want to "move on" away from your marriage, then this is not the place for you.


It sounds like there is actually a lot to build on, if you wanted to reconcile with your wife.

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My marriage is over. I have a friendship with my wife and nothing more.

Deciding to reconcile, isnt about "when i/we feel something, then we will work on things". it's about deciding to work on things, which brings the feelings back when you put the effort in.

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She has not indicated that she wants to work things out at all.


The most important question here, is whether you do or not.

Last edited by Dom R; 11/21/07 06:36 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle