Here is the deal. My marriage is over. I have a friendship with my wife and nothing more. She is in a relationship, so am I. I am open about the future that is all. The only thing I am sure about is my son. Anything can happen tomorrow, I am just being openminded about it. So what is it that is unfair? I have a very unique situation. No one is playing anyone against one another. My wife wanted the divorce she got it. I did everything she wanted me to do, that is why we get along. She has not indicated that she wants to work things out at all. My gf encouraged me in the beginning to try and work things out with my wife. My and I also didn't sleep together for 5 months. She has been on the fence with me from day one, but we have helped each other tremendously in our lives at this time. There was a reason for us to be together. What happens in the future we will have to see, there are no guarantees in life, if you asked me a year and a half ago where I would be, I would have never put myself in this predicament in a million years. So thats the deal, we demand nothing of one another, and give what we can. Maybe if my gf let go a little I could get closer to her but that hasn't happened yet. And as far as getting back together with my wife, there is no offer or anything and even if there was I would have to see how serious it would be and if I can move beyond 100% with what we have been thru.
