Ouch! Thought I was so much stronger!

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Jar...thanks for the pep talk. That makes me feel a little bit better. I think Im struggling with control issues. I want to control my wife and not let her see OM (or make her realize that Im here and ready to fully commit to making our M work). I know that the only person I can control is myself but my mind keeps reverting back to trying to control her.

Sue...I plan on spending the day with my parents and my brother and his family. My brother recently ended an affair he was having and he and his wife are making strides to improve their marriage. So I know that couples do get back together after the affair dies. I think Im just terrified that she's having an affair that wont die.