I have to put my $.02 in here about the email to in-laws. I wouldn't b/c that will end up putting them in an uncomfortable position as to how to respond.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10