Thanks, SH. Yesterday was a better day. We talked on the phone. I asked in a good mood tone, "hey, do you miss me?" "Yes, of course." without hestitation. I do not sense that he is hiding some part of the speech (like "but i miss her too", "but i am lying right now and she is right next to me" you get the idea). And he is doing stuff to help with the move, which is good.
i dont' know how your friend can have no questions and blind faith. that is SO tough. wish I can be that.