Brit, As of now my H is taking the girls to his parents for Thanksgiving. H wanted me to take them but I said it is his family and I thought he should. H still hasn't told his parents about the S. I told H I didn't feel like going and pretending and he said he understood. Not sure what he understood though. Is it he doesn't want to pretend either? D10 asked me about Thanksgiving on Monday and I told her H was taking her and sis to grandma's. She freaked out about me not going. I said we need to see what it is like. D said she wasn't going if I don't. I calmed her down, but H may be in for some drama tomorrow. I wonder if I should just give in and go. I also wonder what H will tell his family if I'm not there.
Sounds like going to TG with them would be less stressful for everyone involved. You don't have to play happy families, but at least it would make the D's happy to have you both there. You're about as separated as I am - Yeah, they don't sleep in the same bed, but they hang around like they're stapled to your butt...
If you feel up to going, I'd just go and have fun. Maybe it will be a good experience for you both
