Well she talked with our neighbor again and after being softspoken and crying with the youth pastor she was angry and thinks i am the devil since i filed the court order. She said when i did that i am controlling my neighbor told her when she left with kids and went into hiding she left me no choice. So she is angry and hates me right now, cant do much about that. I checked our Amex online and saw that she paid a law firm some money yesterday, so looks like its going to get ugly now not feeling to good about things......
You already started with the legal process, so you're going to have to follow through with that - If she went against court orders, you need to hold her accountable. but, you also need to be prepared for the repercussions of your actions. If she is not being financially responsible, you will need to make arrangements to restrict access to funs.
It sounds to me like it got ugly long before she paid for a lawyer. You're not going to be seen as 'the good guy' while you have court orders against her - It's just not possible to play both ends of the field at the same time. You need to decide which end is for you.
