Thanks Sue... I appreciate your feedback. The only reason I dont ask her is because I dont think it will change anything. My W can be very bullheaded.

I have a feeling tomorrow is going to be extremely rough for me. This is the 1st time we wont be spending Thanksgiving together. Even though we've been separated for almost 2 years, we always had Thanksgiving together. Thats why Im thinking that she thinks OM is "the one" for her.

How does everyone remain sane when their kids are introduced to OP? I have this fear my daughter will love the guy and that will validate my wifes feeling for him.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07