Thanks FLTC. Yeah basically we are responsible for our own happiness. For the longest time my W depended on me to provide her happiness and that leads her to being unhappy and me being frustrated not knowing what to do because nothing works. On the bright side the W finally admitted that that morning it was her fault for not getting the kids ready. After all, she made herself the primary care giver for the kids via the S. She was upset with herself for not having things in place and started blaming me, and when I pointed out that she's being overly critical of me, she took it out on me. I think I am happy that she's finally realizing some of the things she's doing. The main thing is I gotta think before I react and de-escalate conflicts. The WAS just isn't rational ATM.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
