The man's perspective definitely helps!!! Thank you! I never really know what he's thinking/feeling.

I'm being really good about not saying anything to him about how I'm feeling right now b/c I know it will pass and I don't want to make a big deal about it. I know he doesn't want to be reminded of the whole sitch all the time, so I just act like everything's great & wonderful. He has no idea that I still think about everything, not all the time, but enough. For him, it's past.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10