About the ow, it is low and pathetic of your H to actually tell you about that woman, he might be just pushing your buttons. Even if it is true, that just shows how crazy he is, of course she is going to expect nothing! she isn't themother of his kids who works full time in and out of the house! About the cleaning, WTH? how can he expect you to do all that stuff and not pitch in? he is nuts, this guy is toxic big time. Perhaps go dark on him, he needs a reality check. You shouldn't have to put up with so much abuse, specially if you are separated.
I pray that you love yourself enough not to let this man into your life before he admits he needs to work on himself.
I agree with kml, don't make any huge decisions right now, he isn' t in shape to make that decision either. Buy your time and make sure things between you two are in order before you pack a box.
Last edited by cat03; 11/21/0705:01 PM.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
