Help/Advice

[soul_mate]

She didn't change overnight, but was unhappy inside and probally acting on the outside. So in reality it seems to you like she has changed, but inside of her nothing has changed overnight. I know this probally doesn't help. We do all know how you feel about the loss of your best friend. It is the worst feeling I know I felt like I could share everything with my W and she would understand. It is terrible not having our best friend at a time when we need them the most. There is no easy way to get through this it takes time a LOT of time. Someone told me this "To be pure gold you must go directly though the fire" You cant jump over the fire or go around it you must go directly through it. Well right now I am sure we all feel like we are going directly through the fire, but if that is what it takes then that is what we have to do.