Oh, I forgot to say, I made a point to not fight last night, asked for his HELP with the kids, (which he pretty much drug his feet on), but I took a shower while he got the kids to bed and I made SURE we had sex BEFORE he got too tired. We watched part of a movie I rented and drank some beers also. It was really great. :-)
PS I can't help but wonder if we weren't both feeling more relaxed because he made us some extra money and we are feeling financially comfortable in the first time in a long time. Phew! We can breathe again! That's always SOOO stressful!