Ouch! Thought I was so much stronger!

[SueS]

Hurtin-

I haven't gotten on your thread yet, but I just have a question. Can you ask your W if she intends to introduce D to OM? If you read my thread, you'll see that I have NOT been the queen of confrontation, but if it came to my child....OH YEAH. I hate to think negatively, but the thought has crossed my mind that if my M doesn't work, under no circumstances would I introduce my D or allow my H to introduce her to OP before anything was settled between us. I think that exposing them to that is just wrong. IMO, it causes even more confusion for the child. I would likely wait a REALLY long time after anything "official" happened in my M before ever exposing my child to someone new. Just my opinion.

I'm sorry you're here. You're getting great support.

SueS