I understand. I have some of the same tendency but I am trying to overcome it in the interest of being a GGG sexual partner. I should make it clear that the real problem I had with Teddy was that I was still in my psycho-validation-seeking phase at that point and I wasn't communicating very well at all. Also, I did get a bit of a "I think I'm getting too old to deal with a woman as "bunkey" as you." vibe off of him. The last I saw of him his behavior was like that of someone returning a bunny to a cabbage patch or a puppy to a pet shop.
I've thought about it and have come to the conclusion that finding someone's bad guy past sexually attractive is actually quite innocent as far as primal reactions go. Nor is having a sexual reaction to certain visuals. Like I said I dress rather conservatively, but if I'd have gone on a date showing lots of cleavage and they had reacted to it I wouldn't have been either angry or disappointed, because it's something hard-wired into the male brain that it would be silly to disapprove of.
The reaction my doll fetishists showed were probably just as primal but somewhat more devious. The female equivalent would be a girl who fell in love with a man because of his Mercedes SLK and his bank account. There's a good way to become objectified and there's a bad way. This is the bad way.
