Sorry for the delayed reply! That makes sense on how he found out. I was hoping it wasn't some type of "hint" that you had dropped or something like that.
I don't blame you at all for not going to the dinners! How irritating that he's accusing you of stuff you didn't say too.
Wow, that call really ws all over the place. I think you may need to come up with some type of a response that stops the conversation entirely when he's jumping around like that. Or when he changes the subject stop him and redirect it back to the prior one. Might help to not argue on stuff that doesn't really matter, too. For example on the "ex" comment, who really cares? He moved out, he gets no say in what you do (same as you can't control him..). So maybe you can say something like "I don't think that's relevant to the Christmas plans..." and get back on track.
About his stuff: that's a tough one. Are you ready to file for sep or D? That may be your only option to be able to change the locks?? Have you talked to an attorney?
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
