W8ing, this morning I had an experience with what you've been posting about. My STBXW initiated the subject twice with me, so I finally did speak about it. It didn't seem to have a positive outcome.
Anyway, it's on my new thread, "turning the page."
Have a good Thanksgiving.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory