What I was actually talking about was the Holiday parties that he wants me to go to with him... Should I go to them or not?
I would do whatever you are comfortable with. If I was you, I would assume the worse that he wants you to go to put on a front. You said that his affair is very secret, so if he didn't bring you to the parties, people might wonder. Your H seems to be very good at living a double life and it's your choice if you're going to help him.
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