Went to the Nursing Home last night. H's dad is getting toward the end we feel and it is so heartbreaking.

H actually asked if it was bad to wish he passed.
Told him no that i tought it was very loving for him to wish he was no longer in pain and does not have any quality of life that he used to have. He was very active until early summer.

H seems somewhat distant but i try not to take it personally as i feel that it is because of his dad. we'll see in time.

I wish everyone a happy Thanksgiving. Everyone is in my prayers.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez