What I was actually talking about was the Holiday parties that he wants me to go to with him... Should I go to them or not? Do I get him a x-mas gift??

I guess I'm looking at my current situation as kind of an "in-house" separation. He can pretty much do whatever he wants and I can do whatever I want. We sleep in separate beds and no more intimacy. I stopped wearing my wedding ring and his seems to be MIA all of a sudden.. and, life goes on....