Brit, As of now my H is taking the girls to his parents for Thanksgiving. H wanted me to take them but I said it is his family and I thought he should. H still hasn't told his parents about the S. I told H I didn't feel like going and pretending and he said he understood. Not sure what he understood though. Is it he doesn't want to pretend either? D10 asked me about Thanksgiving on Monday and I told her H was taking her and sis to grandma's. She freaked out about me not going. I said we need to see what it is like. D said she wasn't going if I don't. I calmed her down, but H may be in for some drama tomorrow. I wonder if I should just give in and go. I also wonder what H will tell his family if I'm not there.
