The sex columnist in the alternative paper I read sometimes uses GGG as an abbreviation for what all people should strive to be as lovers- Good, Giving, Game.
I'm responding to some combination of LP and Dom with the following. It would be paranoid of me to think that GP was cheating on me sexually because when I say he is like Lou in that regard what I mean is that he made it very clear to me that HE wants to be in an exclusive sexual relationship at this point in his life and actually he would like to get married for various reasons. Plus, he is uber-health conscious and therefore not likely to be at all casual or careless about such matters. He is very sexually attracted to me but I think the main reason he might want to be in a LTR with me would be that he admires my cow. The reason he admires my cow is that he is "old school" and would love to go back in time and live in a non-racist version of the 1950's. So he thinks that my 2bx was a loser and an idiot because he was married to a woman who wanted a "happy family life" and he kept cutting me off at the knees as I tried to achieve that goal. The main reason that he wouldn't want to be in a relationship with me is the same one Lou might have- I am currently manifesting as very weak lioness in the non-sexual realm because my financial situation is a disaster.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
