Hey, girl, I know how hard it is when they're gone. They can pretty much do what they want and we can do is pray that they have finally "seen the light" and will make the right choices now.

Not sure if I would be concerned about him being "friends" w/ OW & hubby or not either. I guess if he said it was awkward, he really did have dinner w/ both of them & not just her. In my sitch, OW is now married too. I don't even know if my H knows this yet. When he gets back, he will be in the same office w/ her again. I'm sure we will end up running into each other at some point at a work function or something.

I guess I'll just say we "understand each other" at this point -- you and I, I mean -- as we have a lot of the same things going on.

Just hang in there, it will get better and hopefully as time goes by, we will be able to trust & relax more.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10