What does my XW Want?

[Confused_in_AZ]

Jeff, I completely agree. But are those negatives something that we can see or are they issues that we deal with later in life?

I tend to believe that we are attracted to certain personality types, and they work for us....big fan of the IMAGO Theory. But having said that, I think we can also look for other things...the IMAGO is something that we naturally look for...for the "natural" attraction.

As a new twist....has anyone been set up by their mother? I will be having a date set up by my mother tomorrow night. A woman that she works with, her sister is coming into town and I will be taking her out tomorrow night. Seems like a great person and we seemely connect over telephone and email....but......?

Can mom be always right? Too funny in my opinion! Don't know if she is really trying to help set you up, feeling pity on you, or if she (when you are the right age), is pushing grandkids on you......we shall see, but I am going with the latter at this point!