lol. thanks jarhead. yeah, my sense of humor is the only thing really getting me through the tough times! i personally do not believe in divorce. i will not file. he wants it, he gets it. but i did tell him to not even pick the dice up. i know it's not going to work out with them. he's already lied to her about many things, and he's told me about it. plus, she already knows about his online thing, because that's how they met! we are driving up together. and it's my car. his car won't make it. that's one thing this girl has already done to him. he bought a motorcycle right before he left. her ex boyfriend ran it over and he had to buy an old junker car. i found alot of delight in that! lol i actually told him i wished i could've been there to see his face when it happened! he of course didn't think it was too funny. even tho i talk to his mom about this stuff, i am careful with what i tell her. i do understand the blood is thicker thing. and he is the odd man out. his other sis and bro in law didn't know about the OW and when he moved back home, he told his bro-in-law how we were going to work it out and blahblahblah. so they're upset that he only gave it a week and he's left again. as far as i know they don't know why he left again. to be with her. that's why i say he knows better to not try anything up there. they will put him in his place. i've already decided i will not start anything up there. and i haven't in the past when the whole family is together. i'm friendly, but don't get too close. he's the one who avoids me like the plague.
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
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